Why We Miss Driving In The US

We are lucky to have a car and be able to drive here.  Nevertheless, it is a lot more stressful than driving in the US. The rules, the road signs, the cars, the roads and the other customs are all different.  Because they aren’t yet second nature and we learned in a different environment, driving takes a lot more effort.  We don’t think of Sunday drives here as relaxing.  Here’s why we miss driving in the US.

The signs are different.

  • Speed limit signs are round with a number indicating the speed limit (in k.p.h.).  Unfortunately, we haven’t seen many of them.  More often, we see circular signs with a slash through them.  They indicate that the listed speed limit has just ended.  We would find it much more helpful if the new speed were posted.  These signs mean that the limit reverts to the standard speed limit posted at the borders.

Speed Limit

  • We find this especially difficult because we live mere miles from the French border.  The limits differ in France.  I get the default speeds confused.
  • Due to Europe’s multi-linguality, many road signs have symbols instead of words.  Modifiers (such as, only farm vehicle are permitted) are always given in the local language, which we probably won’t understand.
  • Traffic lights are rarely above the road.  Instead, they are mounted on posts on either side of the road.  I have found myself in the left lane watching the stoplight on the right side (I missed the light for my left turn).  The lights change from red to yellow (before becoming green), giving everyone a change to get a great start off the line.
  • Street names frequently change, at irregular intervals and without warning.  It is even more problematic because there aren’t signposts at intersections.  Street signs are posted on the corner of buildings, just above the ground floor.  This makes them harder to see from the car.  Sometimes they are missing.  Other times, they are in a different language than what is listed in the guidebook.

The rules of the road differ from the US.

  • There is no right turn on red.  Given the may complex intersections, it is understandable (but still slightly frustrating when you are sitting in traffic).
  • The speed limit drops when the road is wet.  What qualifies as wet?  A drop? A rainstorm?
  • Here, yellow diamonds indicate priority.  In the US, priority is generally standard given your location.  Roads here tend to intersect at bizarre angles and turn randomly.  As such, they need a different way to show priority.  They use yellow diamonds (intersecting roads have yield markings).  In the absence of signs, it isn’t the first vehicle on the spot, but the vehicle coming from the right that has the right of way.  Approaching intersections, I constantly worry about whether I have missed a sign…

Customs are different here.


  • Standard transmissions are standard.  Although it doesn’t bother us (unless we are stuck in traffic) a lot of our friends miss having an automatic transmission, particularly on hills.


  • Radar detectors are epidemic. Rather than seeing a police car roadside or lurking in a median, inconspicuous radar/camera/strobe lights cameras are everywhere.   We live in constant fear of receiving a giant ticket in the mail.  Why a giant one?  Look below at the section on speed limit signs.


  • We were astounded the other week when on our trip through the south of France, people didn’t immediately pull over for an ambulance.  Apparently this is common here.   Even so, it was foreign to us.  In the US, drivers are required by law to pull to the right and stop for all emergency vehicles with siren and lights.  By the way, emergency vehicles here sound just like they do in the Bourne Identity movies.

The roads aren’t the broad, straight avenues that we grew up on in the US.

  • Shoulders?  What are those?
  • Good luck finding a straight road.  The roads are narrow, winding and often steep.
  • The German Autobahn doesn’t always have speed limits.  Fun, but not exactly relaxing.  We didn’t get to take full advantage of it because we spent most of our time on the world’s narrowest lanes in construction.
  • Parking spaces are Texas tight.
  • Car-free pedestrian zones all over.  Usually, there is usually a barrier preventing you from driving  in these areas, not that you would want to.  They usually have crazy streets.  You can’t get into them, but getting around them can take a while.

Oh well, at least the scenery is good.  No Entry

  • More problematic is when there is merely no entry sign with words underneath.  These are easy to miss.  Often, they have words underneath describing which cars are permitted to enter…in another language.  They may allow certain vehicles, like taxis or local residents and business owners, to enter.
  • One way streets.  It isn’t just that you have to make sure that you are going the correct way.  The problem is also that if you miss your turn, you can’t change your route easily.  It can take an extra 20 minutes to get back.
  • Roundabouts (aka traffic circles).  Worse with driving in the UK and you have to go them the other way around.

5 thoughts on “Why We Miss Driving In The US

  1. I remember being shocked by people not having to pull over the emergency vehicles. I thought, even if it wasn’t the law, it would be general practice just out of concern for the emergency. Pretty crazy.

  2. I can sympathise with a lot of these.

    I find I am often wondering what the speed limit is, because apparently the council doesn’t have the money to post signs at regular intervals. Or maybe it’s just not cool, here. Either way, Australians are also addicted to radar devices, so knowing the speed limit would kind of be nice sometimes.

    It also took me a while to get used to the stop lights being on the side of the road and I did run a few red lights by mistake at first. Fortunately, without causing an accident! I’m used to it now, though.

    Roundabouts don’t bother me at all (I never understood why Americans seem to find them so confusing), but I do get annoyed by the “no turn on red” rule (in my case, no left turn, rather than no right turn). Sometimes I have sat at a light waiting and waiting for it to change and then looking around to make sure there is no camera or cop and then just turning on red anyway. The Melbourne “hook turns”, however, are a real nightmare and while I am used to them now, I wouldn’t say I have mastered them and I definitely use extra caution around them, especially if they intersect with tram tracks.

  3. Well, I can understand your difficulties in a different country regarding traffic.
    But with some experience, you ought to get used to it quickly.

    In Germany, getting a drivers license involves about 20-30 h of practical training/driving, a theoretical test many fail and a trial period of some years with higher risks of losing the license. A license consequently costs about 2000 Euros.
    In comparison, a drivers license from the US is a bad joke regarding training and qualifications.
    So a US driver starting in Europe is at a disadvantage.
    Since the US lacks public transports systems for intermediate and long-distance and instead relies on car and plane transport for the masses, setting a low standard is understandable.

    Seeing that your physical size is small, I recommend you to ramp up your car seat up to the highest position, since this greatly improves overview, especially with todays potato-shaped cars 🙂 Then, curbs shouldn’t induce anymore fear in you…..

    But I also have to admit that for me, driving in Switzerland on none-highways is much more stressful than in Germany. In Germany, drivers expect to be warned about any potential danger with signs and to be protected from skidding from a road. Maybe this is due to the lack of speed limits on many roads. But driving on Swiss country roads even in summer time without warning signs nor metal rails protecting you from accidentally tumbling down a hill is strenous if you you have a lively imagination of what might go wrong :-). I can’t image what it feels like in winter time.

    No wonder the “Postbus” and the trains system are so popular.

    Have fun and enjoy your stay!

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